{"id":1051,"date":"2010-08-24T00:02:40","date_gmt":"2010-08-24T07:02:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.peterfever.com\/blog\/?p=1051"},"modified":"2010-08-18T23:26:12","modified_gmt":"2010-08-19T06:26:12","slug":"i-sabotage-my-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/index.php\/2010\/08\/24\/i-sabotage-my-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"I Sabotage My Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m no different than everyone else, I don\u2019t like getting hurt. When I start feeling comfortable with someone, I look for reasons why this is not the right person. Most of the time it\u2019s stupid thoughts that run through my mind like: this person is not the right height; they didn\u2019t give me the response I wanted; they dress a little weird. I know I sound vain, but I haven\u2019t found \u2018the one\u2019 who is perfect for me. I need someone who is not only physically attractive, but more importantly challenges me intellectually. You might look good, but if you are dumb as a stump, there is no chance of a lasting relationship with me (of course sex is still acceptable).<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s funny but many people are wrong in their assumptions when they see a good looking couple together. I\u2019ve been told, \u201cHey you two are so hot, you make the perfect together, you are so lucky.\u201d But most of the time the reality is just the opposite. Most of the hot people I meet have so many insecurities, it is crazy. I can\u2019t deal with crazy very long, so those relationships are short lived. My theory is that most hot people have been told they were beautiful their entire lives and always assured they could do anything they want. These same people assumed they could just capitalize on their looks, so they never developed much of a personality and didn\u2019t bother to study very much in school. Remember the hot looking high school jock, who knew how to play their sport well, but failed all of their classes? Those are the people I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n

As I\u2019ve said before, I can read people fairly quickly. Chemistry is important when looking for a partner, but sometimes those who you don\u2019t have chemistry with make great friends. But I have to say that I find intelligence a very attractive attribute. Who knows, maybe the perfect person is just around the corner. I guess I just have to keep looking, but I also have to remember to give people a chance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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