{"id":1174,"date":"2010-09-06T02:02:30","date_gmt":"2010-09-06T09:02:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.peterfever.com\/blog\/?p=1174"},"modified":"2010-09-06T02:02:30","modified_gmt":"2010-09-06T09:02:30","slug":"cheating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/index.php\/2010\/09\/06\/cheating\/","title":{"rendered":"Cheating"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cheating on your partner is bad, although some say it is guilt that makes you feel bad and that\u2019s a wasted emotion. In the book, The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs<\/em> by Peggy Vaugn, the statistics for cheating Americans is pretty high; about 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in their marriage.<\/p>\n

A straight friend of mine, who is going out with a married woman, asked me for advice on whether he should take this relationship to another level. He did feel strange when going out with this women at the beginning, but he later justified it by saying, \u201cIf it’s not me then it will be someone else.\u201d There is some truth to that, because the person cheating has already made up their mind to cheat.<\/p>\n

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I have another friend who is married and who got involved with a married woman he worked with. Things were great for a while, but after a few months everything turned for the worse. He was having a dinner party with his wife and friends when a neighbor ran over to say his car and garage was on fire. They ran out to see his neighbors with their garden hoses putting out the fire and\u00a0 he could hear the sirens\u00a0 from the fire trucks in the background heading to his house. He saw the woman down the street parked in her car watching the events take place. He came clean with his wife and with his friends whose car also got a little burned in the fire. It has been about five years since that happened and my friend had got cancer and survived during that time with the support of his family and friends.<\/p>\n

I guess the lesson is, if you want to screw around stay single. If you decide to commit to someone, then commit. And if you are contemplating cheating on your partner, think twice because you could literally be playing with fire.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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