{"id":1764,"date":"2010-10-10T00:02:35","date_gmt":"2010-10-10T07:02:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.peterfever.com\/blog\/?p=1764"},"modified":"2010-10-09T10:46:30","modified_gmt":"2010-10-09T17:46:30","slug":"white-lies-are-ok","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/index.php\/2010\/10\/10\/white-lies-are-ok\/","title":{"rendered":"White Lies Are Ok"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Why do people always ask me to guess their age? I mean, how am I supposed to respond to the question? People don\u2019t really want to hear the truth anyway; otherwise they wouldn\u2019t ask me in the first place. They would rather you tell a \u2018<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/White_lies\" target=\"_blank\">white lie<\/a>\u2019 and say they look young when they don\u2019t. I\u2019m pretty good at guessing peoples ages too, so I\u2019m always put in a bad spot.<\/p>\n<p>I was out at a bar the other night and this guy came up to me and his opening line was, \u201cHow old do you think I am?\u201d I\u2019m more critical when it comes to guessing a guy\u2019s age because women are more sensitive. I look at the fine details like wrinkles under the neck and on the back of the hands, grey hair, and creases when the person smiles. I figured he was in his late 30\u2019s but I said 31. He was excited to tell me 38.\u00a0 Sometimes I don\u2019t feel like playing and I will tell them what I actually think and guys normally brush it off.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1767\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1767\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.peterfever.com\/join.php\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1767\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/index.php\/2010\/10\/10\/white-lies-are-ok\/fan-email\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/Fan-Email.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"640,480\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Taking a Break to Answer Fan Email\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Taking a Break to Answer Fan Email&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/Fan-Email.jpg\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1767 \" title=\"Taking a Break to Answer Fan Email\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/Fan-Email.jpg\" alt=\"Taking a Break to Answer Fan Email\" width=\"576\" height=\"432\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/Fan-Email.jpg 640w, https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/Fan-Email-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1767\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Taking a Break to Answer Fan Email<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Women on the other hand don\u2019t brush off a close guess well. I can understand that because they spend more time and money on beauty products and make-up, and then they take hours to put everything on. This one MILF came up to me in the gym and asked me to guess her age; I said early 40\u2019s when she was obviously close to 50. She seemed so much happier the rest of the time I saw her walking around the gym. I knew if I had guessed it right, she would have felt awful for the rest of the day and I didn\u2019t want that on my conscious.<\/p>\n<p>I think that telling a white lie when it comes to guessing a person\u2019s age is much better than disappointing them with the truth. And I believe that if people believe they look younger, they will actually feel and act younger.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why do people always ask me to guess their age? I mean, how am I supposed to respond to the question? People don\u2019t really want to hear the truth anyway; otherwise they wouldn\u2019t ask me in the first place. 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