{"id":5777,"date":"2011-06-14T01:47:06","date_gmt":"2011-06-14T08:47:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.peterfever.com\/blog\/?p=5777"},"modified":"2011-06-14T01:47:06","modified_gmt":"2011-06-14T08:47:06","slug":"getting-advice-from-joe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/index.php\/2011\/06\/14\/getting-advice-from-joe\/","title":{"rendered":"Getting Advice from Joe"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<figure id=\"attachment_5779\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5779\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.peterfever.com\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"5779\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/index.php\/2011\/06\/14\/getting-advice-from-joe\/joe-peter-philip\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Joe-Peter-Philip.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"600,450\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Joe, Peter, and Philip\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Joe, Peter, and Philip&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Joe-Peter-Philip-600x250.jpg\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5779  \" title=\"Peter, Philip, and Joe\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Joe-Peter-Philip.jpg\" alt=\"Peter, Philip, and Joe\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Joe-Peter-Philip.jpg 600w, https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Joe-Peter-Philip-75x55.jpg 75w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5779\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Peter, Philip, and Joe<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>My buddy Joe, who lives in New York City, is close friend that I can always rely on for advice. Today I called him because I\u2019ve been moody lately with people and can\u2019t figure out why. I just snap at people, which is highly unusual because I\u2019m normally even tempered.<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\">Joe volunteers at AA support groups from time to time, because he wants to give back to the people who helped him 20 years ago. When he recently went to a meeting, he learned about a new acronym \u201cHALT\u201d (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired). He said, \u201cRemember HALT, whenever you don\u2019t feel like yourself or people are asking you if something is wrong. It normally means that you are either hungry, angry, lonely, tired, or a combination of those.\u201d<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\">It made sense. I\u2019ve been traveling a lot lately, staying out late, not eating on my regular schedule and definitely not getting enough sleep. So now that I know what\u2019s wrong, I need to reschedule my days so I put myself first and make sure I eat on a regular schedule and get at least 8 hours sleep each night.<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\">Thanks Joe, I always know I can count on you for great advice. And if you guys feel out of control, remember to HALT and help center yourself again.<\/h4>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5780\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5780\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.peterfever.com\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"5780\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/index.php\/2011\/06\/14\/getting-advice-from-joe\/joe-and-pj\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Joe-and-PJ.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"600,450\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Joe and PJ\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Joe and PJ&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Joe-and-PJ-600x250.jpg\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5780  \" title=\"Joe and PJ\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Joe-and-PJ.jpg\" alt=\"Joe and PJ\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Joe-and-PJ.jpg 600w, https:\/\/blog.peterfever.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Joe-and-PJ-75x55.jpg 75w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5780\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Joe and PJ<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My buddy Joe, who lives in New York City, is close friend that I can always rely on for advice. Today I called him because I\u2019ve been moody lately with people and can\u2019t figure out why. 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