I just got off the phone with my ex only to find out that I’m so fucking glad we are no longer together. We broke up in May and I thought we would try the whole friendship thing, but that was stupid on my part. Here is how the call went:
Ex – Peter I need to talk to you?
Me – What’s up?
Ex – I’ve been thinking about our relationship and I’m glad we broke up; you were an asshole and you treated me like shit. I don’t think you really cared about me when we were together and never made time for me. And then you just ended it suddenly.
Me – I’m sorry you feel that way, but I never treated you like shit; that’s your reaction to the situation.
Ex – Fuck you Peter! I just wanted to tell you that I had been fucking other guys while you were busy traveling to photo and video shoots, training people all day, and working on your websites. I just thought you should know.
Me – So why after all this time did you decide to call me? Just to be a prick?
Ex – Fuck you! [hangs up]
So that’s that. I’m the asshole for working hard, trying to build my business while my ex is the saint who was fucking other guys behind my back. It definitely caught me by surprise. I think it is human nature to want what we don’t have and it’s common not to appreciate what we do have; but cheating isn’t the answer. I admit that I’m feeling some pain because of this, but I’m not going to let myself suffer because of it. Life moves on and so must I.
So who’s up for going out?