My clients and I talk about a lot of things while I’m training them. The other day I was talking to my client, who is in his late 40’s, about sex. Jim said he prefers to be with guys in their early 20’s because he likes lean bodies and the innocence about them. He said the one thing the younger guys don’t understand is the importance of intimacy and taking one’s time.
When Jim makes love, he likes to take his time. He starts with some kissing, then foreplay, followed by intercourse, but then he wants to cuddle and kiss after. But most of the young guys he hooks up with only want to fuck and then go out. I kind of understand these guys because I’m pretty much the same, I go straight to sex, cum, and then get ready to go out. I admit it, I’ve been selfish up to now.
Jim went on to say that after many years and many lovers, the younger generation is really missing the best part, intimate sex. He said, “Great sex happens slowly. Both of you should enjoy each stage of sex. Nothing should be rushed; after all it’s not about the destination (cuming) but the journey.”
So I learned something new, by taking my time and not rushing things, sex can be even more enjoyable and incredible for both of us. No one really likes quickies all the time because then they just feel used and cheap. A lot of what he said ties into what I’m reading in the Multi Orgasmic Man as well as some other books I’ve been reading. I definitely want to take my sexual experience to a higher level for both me and my partners. Now I just need to start practicing this. Any volunteers? I promise I’ll be gentle.