My manager and I were driving back from Long Beach to San Francisco and we started discussing sex. Well we were actually discussing if there is such a thing as too much sex. Interesting question and quickly answered by most people with, “There’s no such thing as too much sex.” But is that really true?
I started comparing it to working out. When I use to work out 6 days a week for 3 hours a day it seemed great in the beginning. The endorphins would get me going and I just loved the feeling. But after a while I began to notice that I saw less and less progress, the euphoria I use to feel wasn’t there anymore, and the passion I had was quickly disappearing. So I started cutting back and found that 3 days a week for 45 minutes is what worked best, not only for me but also for my clients (I discuss this in detail in my books at www.PetePhysique.com).
Sex, I found, is very much the same. Having sex every day after a while can get boring and you can lose your mojo. When you are really into someone, you want to have sex all the time for hours and hours. If you sustain that long enough, you find you grow bored with that person and even the pleasure of sex. Cutting back to 2 to 3 days a week is much more reasonable, but I do think that 3 is a good number to shoot for. But unlike working out, you should definitely break the 45 minute rule and go as long and hard as you can. 🙂
What do you guys think? What does your experience reveal? I would really like to hear from all of you.
it depends.
sometimes, having sex each days (mainly jack off) when the weather is fine. esp. summer.
sometimes, twice in a day.
but in winter, it’s cold. so, once per one or two days.
Having sex wayyy too often can really ruin a relationship, because it can degrade to just “fuck buddy”status instead of boy/girlfriend. You really can tire of that person…I can speak from personal experience:
Several years ago my best friend in college fell in love with me. He wanted me to wait a month before having sex (a difficult time for me), and when we finally did, he was extremely well-endowed. This guy was the second guy I had slept with (the first was rather small but knew how to work the tongue). Suddenly I wanted sex all the time, every single day. He got the impression that I only wanted to be with him because of his big cock, and left me for another woman. (They ended up getting married and having kids.)
hey, that’s me in the mirror working out!! haha, ok, just kidding. ^^,
wow, that sounds like you are trying to set like a sexual caloric workload goal for the week?
Since I’ve read your books I only accept High-Intensity-Interval-Sex, that’s for sure!! 🙂
They say it’s only bonobos and humans who go for it daily, so either it’s a way to lose all your ‘jing’-thing, or to gain a super-jing. When I look at you I think it must be the latter, though…
But then they advise pro-athletes not to, so … oh well…
I guess it IS like working out: That guy hitting it 3 hours a day, may either be doing it for professional or social reasons, or is trying to compensate for something, or will soon have a phase of sudden total abstinence…
Everything is different though when you two really ‘connect’ -- not to mention the l-word, of course…isn’t it?
I have made the experience though that people who were regularly ‘having a lot of sex’ weren’t actually very good at it, personally. They knew all the tricks, all the famous moves, yeah; but they didn’t know what was going on in their partner anymore. And they tend to insist on their ‘routine’. I wonder if something inside may become dull through excess? With a little more ‘unexperienced’ or ‘yearning’ people, that have waited for you ‘soo loong’, there is seduction, romance, every touch is an explosion, every moment is special and as if the first one, and your ‘chi’ or whatever isn’t limited to your genitals, but can move to ever new places, the space between your fingers or toes, to your earlobes or the sides of your hips and you end up doing things for hours that you would be ashamed to tell anybody else afterwards and can’t believe yourself that it felt soo good! So that leaves a lot of variations, messing up your whole statistics! 🙂
Can’t say that I have had the chance to have tasted a ‘Peter’ yet though, so -- prove me wrong! 🙂
(I must be drunk to have written all this….guess you got me with this one!)
My Gosh, I’d like to have a manager that schedules my ‘sex load’ for the week!…(^_^)!
who’s the old man taking your pic….your manager?
peter, 3 days a week is enough as long as i get to jack off looking at u the other 4 days 🙂
btw, have u ever blogged about kissing? something tells me u r one awesome kisser….it’s one of my favorite things to do and watch.
i especially love the kissing in gay asian porn….it’s so fucking hot, especially when the experienced stud is breaking in someone new. he’ll work the new guy over first, getting his dick big and hard, then move up the torso, kissing and licking every inch of the way.
before u know it, he’s onto the neck. sometimes u can tell that the new asian boy wants to keep from going there, so he’ll turn his head and avoid what he knows is coming. but the hard cock and the emotion always takes over, and before u know it, the regular turns that head and puts his tongue on the young stud’s lips.
a little resistance? yeah. but then mr. experience says something, and the mouth opens, letting the tongue enters. then all resistance breaks down, and it’s full tongue-on-tongue kissing. it’s the hottest and sexiest, lemme tell u, and asian porn is good enough to linger on those kisses for a long, long time.
and that’s not to take away from the bodies and cocks, either — both are hot and beautiful.